The whole world wants to see Myanmar sort out its problems, so this is a good time to get the world to help. ASEAN has volunteered. My suggestion:
The generals seek the help of Thailand to figure their interests. The NLD seeks the help of India to further their interests. The generals and NLD pick a mutually acceptable third country to tie it all together. Or maybe even just a person. How busy is the king of Thailand right now? Or perhaps the Norwegians? Get a process started.